relationships

How to get better at fighting — and why it’s the best thing you can do for your relationship

Learning to fight saved my relationship.

Apr 1 •

A return to the motherland

a reflection on family, identity, and what it means to be Chinese

Nov 26, 2024 •

The disney fairytale doesn’t work

What I learned from couples therapy and how it has redefined my relationship

Jan 4, 2024 •

seeking discomfort in relationships

it's high risk, but also such high reward

Dec 5, 2023 •

Honor your parents or honor yourself?

How changing my need for parental approval gave me the freedom to pursue my coaching career

Aug 22, 2023

A love letter to a friend

A friend moves away - and so begins my year of feelings

Feb 12, 2023

Why couples therapy is worth it

Our journey into couples therapy and how it’s fundamentally changed our relationship.

Jan 1, 2023

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